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July 2013

You Kiss Your Mother With That Mouth?

I am furious! At first, I wasn't sure if I should talk about this on here, because I try to be really positive in both life and on my blog. I am a big believer that we are as happy as we want to be. However, after much thought, I think that I will feel better if I talk about it. 

Yesterday, a complete stranger called me a stupid American c*nt. Seriously! I don't really want to go into specifics, but this was a middle aged British man who knew full well what that word means and how awful it is. Why on Earth would anyone every call someone this? Especially over a small, non-issue. It's just hurtful. 

I acted very classy and got myself away from the situation, but what I wish I would have said was:

Words are hurtful, and they say much more about the person who says things like this than the person they are said to or about. After I left, and calmed down because I was so pissed I was visibly shaking, I couldn't help but be really thankful that I only have to listen to the filth that this man spews once. However, this man had to have had a mother, a grandmother, perhaps a sister, maybe a wife, and the worst thought of all a daughter, who might have to deal with his mood swings and misogyny on a daily basis.

What motivates people to be so nasty? Why on Earth do people think that it is okay to say degrading things to another human being? I think I am still in shock because no one has ever called me this before. People don't generally call me names. I guess I'm lucky.

Ladies, if you are with someone who says degrading things like this about other people, remember that they are probably saying the same things about you when you are not there. Fellas, there is not a word that anyone can call you that can even compare to how awful being called the c word is, don't use it.

Okay, off my soapbox now. I feel better. Thanks for sticking around why I vented. What do you think? Is it okay to call someone a c*nt? 

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Around Here

Hello Lovelies! How's your summer going? I've missed you! Last weeks I told you about the major changes coming in my life. I'm super thrilled! But, I've been lacking in the inspiration for blogging lately! So, I wanted to give you a small look at what has been going on here the past few weeks!

It has been incredibly hot here in the Netherlands. Hear me out, I'm from Georgia, but even I think that 85 degrees when you don't have AC in your home is way too hot! You see, AC is not a thing that most of us have here. In fact, a big advertisement for some restaurants is that they have AC! Normally, its fine. I mean I was wearing a jacket this time last year. But we are in a heat wave, which is so rare that I have found that maybe I do need more summer clothes. It's an interesting change, and I feel really bad for my long haired cat, Lulu. Speaking of Lulu, She is the queen of finding places to sleep. Sleeping on a wire clothes rack was her new favorite this week. Seriously, she is so weird! 

Crazy cat

In other animal news, remember that cute little swan baby picture I posted a few weeks ago? The one peeking out from under his/her mom? Well those babies are growing fast! I've become so invested in their upbringing. Bird watching is a normal hobby for someone in their 20's right? Nope? Well I'm an old soul. 

We have been making a ton of changes to our apartment lately. Trying to make it feel more like a home and not like a dorm room. I have been saving for months to buy a new stove. Previously, we had a stove top and an oven the size of a microwave. This is what a lot of people have here, space is at a premium and appliances are expensive. You have no idea how happy I was when our new stove came in last week. However, and I have been told this is normal, it came without a plug! We have to hire an electrician to come and rewire it! So, while I have a beautiful new stove, I haven't been able to use it yet! Regrettably, we had to move the stove top as the stove needed to go into its place. Which means, if we can't cook it just in our tiny oven or in the deep fryer, we can't eat it. I think the electrician is coming this week.

We also moved around all of our furniture in the main room. The space feels so much bigger now! We are still putting the finishing touches on it, but I'm finally starting to like our apartment. Its only been almost two years, but it is finally starting to feel like a home. Which is good, because we got a great deal on it, and we plan on living here until we have a significant down payment for a house. It's so funny, when we first moved, I would have given anything to move closer to the city. Now, I realized that I actually am a little bit country. Here is a sneak peak.

Lastly, I have been experimenting with my hair. I'm appalled to say that I haven't gotten my cut in a year. Before you get all judgy, I was bang butchered and I have been growing it out. Plus, let's just say that hair dressers here do not have the best reputation. Now that my hair is the longest it has ever been, I can try some fun updos. Like this one, which I loved, but fell out on my way to work. 

What has been going on in your lives lately? I want to hear all about it! 

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Big GIANT Changes are Coming!

The blog's been a little lack luster lately. Which is actually on par with my personal moods as of late. After much naval gazing, I have decided that it is time to make some major changes in my life. Before you get all worried, I am not moving away from the Netherlands. 

While I love living here in the NL, I sometimes feel like my professional life took a few steps back, when I moved. I have always been someone who prides themselves on being a great employee, and a lot of my self worth comes from my job performance. I have also discovered that I am not cut out for student life. I despise almost everything about it. Its not that I don't love to learn, because I do, but it needs to be on my terms. I also hate the working nights and weekends, because I can't live without money, and the no free time. 

It got so bad that I realized that I haven't spent one whole weekend with my love in a year. A year, and he is the whole reason I moved over here! I can't see anything being worth that sacrifice, but it would help if I was in love with my program, which I wasn't. It was a lot of this is how you improve your English, and this is how you act professionally. Which is great, if English is not your native tongue and you haven't been working for the last ten years. Plus, having the Spanish requirement was making my Dutch go down the toilet. What I'm trying to tell you is, I'm done with it! 

That's right, I am no longer a student. Although, I will miss my girls! One good thing that came out of the past year is that I found a company that I like a lot, and I am thrilled to say that I am being promoted. That means that I'm going to have a regular schedule, a salary, and a position that is more like what I am professionally accustomed to.

So, what does this mean for the blog.  It means that you will get an even happier less stressed out Kaitlin. It also means that I will have more time to pursue my passions. I don't know if you guys really know this, because I don't share it very often, but I love to  cook, bake and craft. We just bought a new full sized stove, which will be delivered this week, so I can start to share some of the recipes I love. I'm also quite thrifty so I might throw in some of those tips as well.

I hope you guys will like the new changes. I am just so happy with this new direction my life is moving in! How about you, tell me what is going on in your lives! 

Until next time,

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Current Obsessions: Susanna Kearsley Novels

Susanna Kearsley Novels

I know, I know, you should never judge a book by its cover. But sometimes, beautiful covers can lead to beautiful stories. When I first got my kindle, a cover on the Daily Deal caught my eye. It was so pretty that I barely, read what the book was about I just hit purchase. A few months later, there was another beautiful cover for less than 3 dollars so I bought that one two. Then another, finally I realized that all these books I was buying soley based on the beautifulness of their covers were by the same author, Susanna Kearsley. Since I had amassed about four of her books on lack of impulse control, I finally set about to reading them. 

As it turns out, I love Susanna Kearsley's storytelling. Each one of her novels are set in throughout the United Kingdom with some element of the paranormal. Besides the interesting turns into the fray, her novels have strong characters and her descriptions of the landscape make you feel like you are there. I might also have more than a little thing for old English cottages which play so heavily in her stories. I'm going to go through her novels in the order I've read them.

Mariana: Julia Beckett has always been in love with a house she say when she was a child called Greywethers. Her whole family thinks she is a bit crazy for buying the house, but she is so drawn to it. As it turns out, Greywethers is exactly where Julia belongs, and has for centuries.

Shadowy Horses: This is tied for my favorite of her novels. Archeologist Verity Grey decides to escape London for a bit and help out her old professor on a dig to find a lost Roman legion, what she learns it that some of the legion never left. 

The Winter Sea: Carrie McClelland is a bestselling historical fiction writer who is in Scotland chasing up a lead. What she finds is a story she never expected and unbreakable ties to a place she had never been before. This is tied with Shadowy Horses as my favorite. 

The Rose Garden: The novel I am currently reading. Eva Ward returns to Cornwall where she spent her childhood summers to bring her newly deceased sister to her final resting place. She rekindles her relationships of both the recent past and the very, very distant past. 

Kearsey has other novels and I am sure I will read those as well. Maybe I should get a job as a book blurb writer. Have you ever read any of Susanna Kearsey's novels? What are you reading this summer? I would love to know!

Image complied from GoodReads

Until next time,

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The Alphabet Game

Melissa from My Lief Life tagged me in the alphabet meme a few weeks ago. I meant to do it much sooner, but finals and major life contemplation got in the way. More on that later, but for now The Alphabet Meme!

A: Attached or Single: Very attached. Moving countries for someone makes you very very attached.

B: Best Friend: Is it too lame to say Loek? I think that people come in and out of your life at certain points and some stick around no matter the time and distance. I am so thankful that I have a great support system in my life.

C: Cake or Pie: I am totally a cake girl, in fact up until last Thanksgiving I was ardently opposed to all pie. However, watching the Great British Bake Off, makes me really really want to try a proper meat pie.

D: Day of Choice: Any day that I have completely off. If Loek has is off as well, then all the better.

E: Essential Item: Sunscreen. Sensitive skin that gets burnt even in the eternally cloud filled Netherlands will make this anyone's essential.

F: Favorite Color: Mustard yellow or orange.

G: Gummy  Bears or Worms: Both? As long as they aren't the sour gummy worms. I actually have no impulse control with gummy bears. I have been known to go on gummy bear binges. Its not pretty.

H: Hometown: Even though I was born in Florida, I lived throughout the metro Atlanta area through my formative years. So, yeah I'm an A town girl.

I: Favorite Indulgence: Gilmore Girls.

J: January or July: Both require jackets in the Netherlands. But it gets dark at 4pm in January and 11pm in July. So July wins!

K: Kids: I'm about to have another Godchild and I am so excited about it. One day I'll have some of my own, but right now I am happy to live vicariously through my friends back home. 

L: Life Isn't Complete Without: Books.

M: Marriage Date: Before I'm 30? 

N: Number of Handbags: Only one, I am so not normal! Now ask me how many book bags I own!

O: Oranges or Apples: The smell of oranges, the juice of apples.

P: Phobias: Boats and sharks. 

Q: Quote: “All that is gold does not glitter. Not all those who wander are lost"

R: Reason to Smile: I'm going back to visit the States for the first time since I moved abroad, in less than two months!

S: Season of Choice: Spring time!

T: Tag 5 People: Your turn Christy, Amanda, Lily, Tania and Katie!

U: Unknown Fact About Me: I can not stand the smell of Bradford Pear's in bloom.

V: Vegetable: Green asparagus. 

W: Worst Habit: Leaving the cabinet doors wide open!

X: X-ray or Ultrasound: I've only ever had an x-ray.

Y: Your Favorite Food: Boiled Peanuts!

Z: Zodiac Sign: Leo or a Tiger if you are talking Chinese Zodiac.

 

I had lots of fun doing this, you can play along! 

 

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